Thursday, November 06, 2008

First Step: the Past doesn't matter, mind does.

Let's begin...

First, nothing that has gone on in your past or what is going on in your present defines your future. Even if you have done something that has resulted in the loss of personal freedom (yes, prison), your future is unwritten, unknown.

This means that your future can be heavily determined by your frame of mind about what is possible and what is not: your own imposed limitations. If you believe that you can't do this or can't do that or can't be this or that, then most likely your brain specifically your subconscious will ensure that you are not proven wrong.

In other words, you become your own worst roadblock by believing that you can't do or be something. This is why what parents tell their children when they are young has such an impact on their future self-image. The FBI BAU (Behavioral Analysis Unit) which a part of the NCAVC (National Center for the Analysis of Violent Crime) has empirical evidence that many violent offenders were made so by the words or deeds impacted on them by their parents.

The great thing about humans is that we are not "locked into" any predetermined mind set or behavior. We all can change our thinking and thereby change what our minds focus on minute by minute. Vietnam POWs talk about the only thing they had during years of imprisonment was their ability to think, reason, and remember. Many say it was this ability that prevented their captors from breaking their wills.

The mind is beginning, the source, and the end of all human realization; our daily perspective on life is based on how we think the world is, not what it may be in reality. This is both good and bad since it can provide a positive or negative impact on our lives.

So, the first step is to realize that it our own mental processes that hold the key to our future success or failures.

Welcome to You Can Be Fixed!

Welcome to myh new blog!

In this blog we will discover how you can discover your own true potential, deal with personal limitations, and most importantly, learn how to fix what you feel are you most pressing problems in areas of personal growth, professional aspirations, self-image, and relationships.

Having had the experiences of several lifetimes in my over 50 years; having made and lost several fortunes and made them back again; having dealt with such life changing experiences of personal danger, closeness to death, loved ones with terminal medical diagnoses, crises of faith and ethics, and so many others, I can help you understand how you own imposed limitations are the most limiting of all.

What you think are your limits is what your mind will impose on you.

How you perceive your life is exactly how it will ultimately turn out.

What you see as your "lot in life" is the goal your subconscious will work on to make come true.

Personal limitations are those invisible barriers that we place upon ourselves without the help of anyone or anything else. They are the handcuffs that prevent us from obtaining our true potential. They are what we devise to rob us of our success and future achievements.

The positive note in this is that while personal limitations are self-imposed, they are also self-eliminated. Only we can rid ourselves of their power since it is our own mind that gives them life and substance.

Join me in a journey of self-discovery. Come back often for your dose of "personal espresso!"

Final note: this blog is moderated since blog spam is increasing, and many people have not learned out to deal with their anger and no sense in subjecting my readers to their inappropriate slurs and slangs. Please feel free to comment and I will post most of them without editing, but if language or comments are hate-filled, they will be modified for sake of civility.

Welcome.